Monday, April 23, 2007

Assignment 13

My life has been shaped by others in many ways. Without the outside influences I've had, i wouldn't be the person I am today. In the last few years my friend Heather has influenced me the most. Our friendship was very unlikely. I used to be a real loaner and opened up to almost no one. But then I met her and something caught my eye. She was different from the other girls I knew. There was just something about her, an inner beauty that I wanted to know. So I started talking to her and we got to be friends. That friendship was unlike any of the others I had been in. We talked often and went so much deeper than surface level conversation. After some time, we started dating. Dating was a new experience for me as I had never had a serious girlfriend before. Throughout the time we here dating we grew even closer together and went through many trials. But alas is was apparent to both of us that out dating was going nowhere and we called an end to that phase of our relationship. It was a very hard time for both of us, but especially for her. I hadn't made things very easy for her... It was touch and go for a few weeks after, but out of that pain and hurt came an even deeper friendship. A friendship that has kept me going so many times. One that has changed me in so many ways, but all for the good. Heather brought me out of my shell. I am much more forward now and outgoing. She has showed me that even though some pretty crappy stuff happens, its still possible to forgive that person and restore the relationship. Heather has been a constant in my life that has helped me through the last few years tremendously. And for that I'm eternally grateful. So thank you Heather for truly being a friend to me and letting me share this piece of my life with you.

Monday, April 09, 2007


The cross, one of socitety's most recognised symbols, holds a very profound meaning for Christians. Two thousand years ago, the Romans used the cross as their from of capital punishment. Prisoners were nailed to the cross and allowed to eventually weaken and suffocate. The cross was one of the most cruel and painful methods of capital punishment. Around the year 33 AD, a man named Jesus was nailed to a cross or crucified. His life was one of the most controversial and inspiring lives in history. He had a huge following and performed many miracles. Last week, his death and resurrection were once again celebrated. To the Christians, the cross is both a symbol of sorrow and joy. Sorrow remembering the pain of the cross, but joy remembering what was paid for that day. But more than just for Christians, the cross has become a symbol. A symbol to ward off evil spirits and a charm for necklaces. But to truly understand the meaning of the cross, one must have experienced the joy that it has brought. I am not ashamed of the things that I believe and I am so very thankful for the freedom of speech here in America. There aren't many other places where we can say what we believe and not fear a governmental backlash.